Don’t automatically go there. 

When the picture is posted. The one that makes you cringe. Just don’t mentally go there. 

One was posted a few weeks ago with me in it, and my first inclination was to think, “Wow, this really highlights the most unflattering part of my body.”

But I wasn’t looking hard enough. I wasn’t looking at what really mattered. 

The smiles. The happy tears. The sparkle in my loved one’s eyes. The meaning of the moment. 

Ladies, we’ve got to stop that. 

First of all, I guarantee you no one else honed in on that body part except for me because if they did – well, that’s just weird. 

Second of all, who cares!!! Let’s retrain our minds to focus on what matters. 

Let’s focus on the meaning of the moments not the insecurities that we see that no one else does. 

Let’s focus on our family and our friends and our faith. 

Let’s focus on the freedom we have in Jesus Christ. 

After all, we will all have perfectly perfect bodies in Heaven. And here on earth, I guarantee your loved ones think you’re perfect just the way you are. 

Now that’s good news. 

“I praise you because I am fearfully and wonderfully made; your works are wonderful, I know that full well.” Psalm 139:14