I’ve recently welcomed twin daughters into my somewhat quiet life, and they are the greatest blessings I have ever received. Though my previous quiet days are now filled with lots of chaos, I am incredibly humbled and honored to be their mother.

Since becoming a mother, I, along with a very close friend, are holding one another accountable to read the Bible in a year. With this new role, I have found that the Lord’s Word speaks to me in a different way than before.

“You shall love the LORD your God with all your heart and with all your soul and with all your might. And these words that I command you today shall be on your heart. You shall teach them diligently to your children, and shall talk of them when you sit in your house, and when you walk by the way, and when you lie down, and when you rise. You shall bind them as a sign on your hand, and they shall be as frontlets between your eyes. You shall write them on the doorposts of your house and on your gates.”(Deuteronomy 6:5–9)

In this new season of joy, I have also encountered new challenges that I have never experienced. These new roles bring with them fresh opportunities for offense to sneak in, moments where my heart may not reflect life, and routines that reshape my days and demand new priorities.

As a parent, I’m learning that we carry a profound responsibility to demonstrate to our children the Word of God and what it means to have a genuine relationship with Him. We are often the first example they see: how to navigate offense, how to respond to conflict, and how to prioritize The Word of God in our busy lives.

How do we show this commandment to our children? What does it look like to love The Lord with our heart, soul, and all of our might?

Loving the Lord with all of our heart, soul, and might means prioritizing Him and His Word above all else, pouring time into the scriptures and in prayer, no matter how hectic and chaotic our life may get.

As a child, my mom and dad were always disciplined to prioritize their quiet time with The Lord. I can remember waking up for school each morning and they would be in The Word, no matter how busy the day ahead was. They modeled to me the importance of how to create a true relationship with The Lord, and what that looked like in handling day to day challenges.

I would love for you to join me in getting in The Word daily despite the busyness of life, and challenge ourselves in living out That Word when we experience offenses and challenges.

In the never-ending gap between Christmas Break and Spring Break. The days feel long, the calendars are jam-packed, and everyone feels like they’re going a little crazy. Am I right?

Some of us are on auto-pilot, barely present in our own lives. Many are overwhelmed, overstimulated, and just over it. Others are screaming on the inside, feeling a little insane.

King Nebuchadnezzar (let’s call him King Neb) had his own moment of insanity. After controlling his own kingdom for far too long, he had a wild dream that became his reality. In Daniel 4, the king “lost his sanity” as he tried to make sense of his life.

Daniel 4:34 says, “At the end of that time, I, Nebuchadnezzar, raised my eyes toward heaven, and my sanity was restored. Then I praised the Most High, I honored and glorified him who lives forever.”

King Neb tried to do things his way, following his plan, in his time. He wanted to do it all, be it all, and handle it all. He attempted to be his own king.

In his insanity, he saw that surrender was the only way to sanity. He realized that he had to remove his own crown of control, look to heaven, and humble himself before the true King.

I think we can see ourselves in King Neb.

We attempt to do it all by our own strength and might. We try to capture control and create our own kingdoms. We make our own plans and fix our own problems.

Then, we lose it…

We live on edge, overwhelmed by our own lives.

We lose sight of the promise of abundant life.

We let the small things build up and break down.

King Neb’s crazy dream led him to the cure for his own craziness.

The secret to sanity isn’t having everything under control. The secret to sanity is surrendering it to the One in control.

Like Neb, we have to remove crowns of control.

We are called to cast every care at His feet.

We are told to fix our eyes on things above.

It’s His Kingdom, we are just in it.

Hand over the crown to the One in control.

“For I consider that the sufferings of this present time are not worthy to be compared with the glory which shall be revealed in us”. -Romans 8:18 NKJV

When I was growing up in the ‘70s, family time typically revolved around certain television programs. For our family, it was often weekly game shows. While I was studying and meditating on Romans 8:18 one recent morning, I thought about the particular game show “Let’s Make a Deal”, hosted by Monty Hall. Part of the show included Monty picking a contestant from the audience (the audience would dress in some crazy outfits in hopes of gaining his attention) and offering some moderately valued prize. He would then barter with them and offer a trade for something else in a particular box. The person had to weigh the value of their current prize against the potential of what was in the box. Sometimes it paid off to trade and the hidden prize was revealed to be of greater value, like maybe an appliance. Sometimes the trade was of little value, like a can of dog food. These prizes were called “zonks.” The person’s decision was based on chance and much uncertainty. 

When we think about the meaning of “revealed” and our certainty in Christ, it serves as a reminder that, unlike game show contestants who take chances in hopes of something better, we as believers have the assurance and certainty of what will be revealed in Christ. “So we fix our eyes not on what is seen, but on what is unseen. For what is seen is temporary, but what is unseen is eternal.” 2 Corinthians 4:18 NIV

“No eye has seen, no ear has heard and no mind has imagined what God has prepared for those who love him.  But it was to us that God revealed these things by his Spirit. For his Spirit searches out everything and shows us God’s deep secrets.” 1 Corinthians 2:9-10 NLT

God’s promises are beyond our comprehension, yet they are revealed to us through His Word and His Spirit, providing us with hope and assurance. Our hope is not based on uncertainty or chance but on the unshakable promises of God. We can hold on to this certainty, knowing that our future glory in Christ far outweighs any of life’s uncertainties we may face. 

To paraphrase what Paul says, anything else is a “zonk”.

“Yes, everything else is worthless when compared with the infinite value of knowing Christ Jesus my Lord. For his sake I have discarded everything else, counting it all as garbage, so that I could gain Christ and become one with him.” Philippians 3:8-9 NLT

Deep down, we all want to be seen.

We want our efforts to be seen…

Our successes…

Not so much our failures.

God sees us.

He sees us in our weak moments.

He sees us in our “better” moments.

He sees us for who we truly are.

As Christians, we’re going to mess up. We’re going to sin. But when He died on the cross, Jesus took upon Himself the condemnation and judgment we should have faced.

Romans 8:1 tells us, “So now there is no condemnation for those who belong to Christ Jesus.”

An example of this is in John 8 when the religious leaders brought a woman caught in the act of adultery to Jesus. Obviously, a man was involved, but he was gone, and the religious leaders had set up a trap. They said, “This woman was caught in the act of adultery. The law of Moses says to stone her. What do you say?” (verses 4–5 NLT).

But Jesus knew exactly what they were doing. And instead of answering right away, He stooped down and wrote in the dirt. We don’t know what Jesus wrote, but whatever it was, it made had a big impact. Then He stood up and said, “All right, but let the one who has never sinned throw the first stone!” (verse 7 NLT).

The Bible tells us that one by one, they all left, from the oldest to the youngest. So, Jesus said to the woman, “Where are your accusers? Didn’t even one of them condemn you?”

She replied, “No, Lord.”

Then Jesus told her, “Neither do I. Go and sin no more” (verse 11 NLT).

This woman knew she was going to die that day. But instead, everything changed when she looked into the eyes of Jesus and looked at the others who had condemned her. And she believed on the spot. That’s how long it takes to believe in Jesus. It’s instant.

God always sees us for what we can become. Think of Simon Peter. When he was still known as Simon, Jesus gave him a new name, Peter, which means “rock.” Now, if there was anything that Simon was not, it was a rock. He was hotheaded, compulsive, and argumentative. Yet Jesus said, “From now on, you’re a rock.”

Maybe the other disciples were laughing at this, thinking, “Rock? Does Jesus know Simon?” but they didn’t know him like Jesus did.

Because yes, Jesus did know him. But Jesus wasn’t calling Simon what he was; He was explaining what he would become. Where we see failure, God sees potential.

We see a Simon. God sees a Peter. We see the past. God sees the future. We see a mess. God sees a message. God sees us for who we are in Christ, not what we were in sin. God does not see us in our sin; He sees us in His Son. God can change everything in your story—if you’ll only let Him.

A few days ago I was sitting at Chick-fil-A, and we were praying over our food when a lady walks up and says “Hey! Can I ask you a question?”

We end up having a 30 minute discussion about religion. She was telling me about her beliefs, and I was telling her about my Jesus.

She ended up leaving the conversation because she couldn’t give me answers to my questions.

Looking back on it I would have never initiated that conversation. I am not the type to begin talking to someone about different beliefs or religions. But that conversation went well for the Christians in the room.

A spark was started in her life and in mine.

It’s when we go out of our comfort zone that we can see more of how God uses us in the day to day.

It’s when we answer “yes” to the simple questions. And it’s when we simply share about Jesus and His miracle life!

Talk about the Lord. Don’t be afraid to share what He’s done for you.

Hi 👋🏻

Here is the pep talk we all need this week.

Ma’am, you can’t do it all.

I repeat ————> You cannot do it all.

But you can:

▪️Plan

▪️Prioritize &

▪️Pray

And to put it in Daisy language (not fancy, kinda country): if you prioritize anything, it best be prayer. Because ladies – without prayer, it’s all gonna go to pot.

Now that’s just the truth.

Let’s plan to put God first this week.

Let’s prioritize God & be Kingdom-minded.

Let’s pray. Let’s pray for God to guide us every step of the way.

You’ve got this, girl. You’ve got this.

“Commit your work to the Lord, and your plans will be established.” Proverbs 16:3

Everywhere I look I see growth. Green grass, flowers in bloom, and new growth on the trees. It is literally everywhere I look. I feel like God is calling us to growth in relationship with him this season.

If you know anything about gardening or tending flowers and trees it is not an easy process. It takes time and devotion. Much like our relationship with our savior – it takes time and devotion.

We must weed out the things of the world, and we must fertilize with the word and gain knowledge. Possibly the most difficult part is the pruning. We must allow God to prune away the difficult parts of our lives. The dead or dying things that we hold close. The hurts, mistakes, rejections, and secrets that we hold onto because allowing God to prune them would be embarrassing or painful. If we let those go we release control of them.

Sisters, allow God to prune you today. He wants to bring growth to you. More than you can imagine. He wants to replace that hurt and longing and rejection with joy and those mistakes and secrets with peace.

Isaiah 43:19 says, “See, I am doing a new thing! Now it springs up; do you not perceive it? I am making a way in the wilderness and streams in the wasteland.”

Let him grow you in this season, and may you bloom wherever you are planted ❤️