The right place

We all have motives to explain the things we do and why we do them. Why do you believe what you believe? 

We can be persuaded and inspired to believe all types of things. Do you believe that Jesus is Lord and Savior? Would you be able to explain your reasoning why to someone else?

A family member or friend may have been your first motive to open the Bible or sit in a church pew. That is a blessing in itself, but it doesn’t stop there. Just opening the Bible and attending church will not save you on their own accord. They are both ways to get to know the true Jesus and foster a relationship with Him; they are essential to experiencing His saving love and grace. 

Our motive for a relationship with Christ should be rooted in our understanding of the attributes of His character, not just the eternal reward. That ticket to Heaven is great, but we are not deserving of it…at all!

God is all powerful, all knowing and the creator of all things. He deserves all of the praise and glory for giving us the free gift of salvation. Our faith in the Lord will not waver based on circumstances, if our motives to believe are in the right place. Seek Jesus because of who He is and what He has done! 

”For thus says the Lord, who created the heavens (he is God!), who formed the earth and made it (he established it; he did not create it empty, he formed it to be inhabited!): “I am the Lord, and there is no other. I did not speak in secret, in a land of darkness; I did not say to the offspring of Jacob, ‘Seek me in vain.’ I the Lord speak the truth; I declare what is right.“

Isaiah 45:18-19

Pivot

“Pivot. Pivot! PIVOT!!”

It’s an iconic moment for the show FRIENDS as the character Ross shouts these words to Rachel and Chandler that are trying to help him with moving a couch. One of many quotes that live rent free in my head to be honest but lately it’s become more of a thing I tell myself — Pivot!

A shift or change in my perspective or attitude or expectation while still remaining in a fixed position as I endure transition.

“Change is outward, transition is inward…”

These words were a revelation for me when I heard them earlier this month. I’ve always used change and transition interchangeably but here I could tell there was a stark difference.

Transition. It’s such a tricky thing and many of us are probably going through it in some way or another. Transition is the space between; the process of getting from point a to point b and it’s happening within us. It’s when our heart is preparing for seasons or rhythms of life we know are changing or have changed. For me personally it’s going on the mission field, for others it could be having a baby, getting married, graduating, a new career, becoming empty nesters, or even processing the loss of a loved one or a relationship. Outward changes and circumstances that affect our inward life.

”My heart is steadfast, O God, my heart is steadfast; I will sing and give praise.“

Psalms 57:7 NKJV

Psalm fifty-seven seven played over in my mind – a prompting from the Lord to look it up. I had no idea what the scripture actually was and when I read it I certainly didn’t understand because my heart actually felt anything but steadfast. However, I do like to dig into Hebrew meaning, a semblance of verse mapping so hopefully y’all will stick with me on this. 

Steadfast in the Hebrew could mean:

Be enduring

Be securely determined

Be arranged 

To be prepared, be ready

To be established, be fastened

And those are just some. I didn’t stop there though, I also looked into “sing” and “give praise”, including root words and finding things like:

Travel, journey, go

Trim, prune, pluck

Stand, tremble

It was then I felt I could proclaim the same as David in this transition. My heart is steadfast, O God, I will sing and give praise because He’s preparing my heart in the journey. And He’s preparing yours too. In whatever transition you find yourself. He’s our fixed point, our firm foundation! Some things are pruned, some pivoting needed in our inner life at times, but we will find a song along the way and stand and tremble in a deeper awe of God. It’s only when we refuse to make some adjustments that are needed or refuse to continue on the journey that we end up stuck in this transition, never seeming to go further inwardly. And perhaps, like in the show, frustrated. Yet when we fix our eyes on Jesus (again) – pivot our focus – and trust Him in the process we find ourselves smoothly entering into the next phase of life and ourselves fully ready. We’ve been prepared.

This also makes me think of the process of new wine and how we need to be new wine skin that it may be preserved:

“And no one puts new wine into old wineskins; or else the new wine will burst the wineskins and be spilled, and the wineskins will be ruined. But new wine must be put into new wineskins, and both are preserved.“

Luke 5:37-38 NKJV

Transitions aren’t meant to take us out, they are meant to make room for new, a segue.

May you find your heart steadfast and giving praise to the author and finisher of your faith, Jesus, in this transition and trust the process and purpose of the new.

A legacy

I’ve recently welcomed twin daughters into my somewhat quiet life, and they are the greatest blessings I have ever received. Though my previous quiet days are now filled with lots of chaos, I am incredibly humbled and honored to be their mother.

Since becoming a mother, I, along with a very close friend, are holding one another accountable to read the Bible in a year. With this new role, I have found that the Lord’s Word speaks to me in a different way than before.

“You shall love the LORD your God with all your heart and with all your soul and with all your might. And these words that I command you today shall be on your heart. You shall teach them diligently to your children, and shall talk of them when you sit in your house, and when you walk by the way, and when you lie down, and when you rise. You shall bind them as a sign on your hand, and they shall be as frontlets between your eyes. You shall write them on the doorposts of your house and on your gates.”(Deuteronomy 6:5–9)

In this new season of joy, I have also encountered new challenges that I have never experienced. These new roles bring with them fresh opportunities for offense to sneak in, moments where my heart may not reflect life, and routines that reshape my days and demand new priorities.

As a parent, I’m learning that we carry a profound responsibility to demonstrate to our children the Word of God and what it means to have a genuine relationship with Him. We are often the first example they see: how to navigate offense, how to respond to conflict, and how to prioritize The Word of God in our busy lives.

How do we show this commandment to our children? What does it look like to love The Lord with our heart, soul, and all of our might?

Loving the Lord with all of our heart, soul, and might means prioritizing Him and His Word above all else, pouring time into the scriptures and in prayer, no matter how hectic and chaotic our life may get.

As a child, my mom and dad were always disciplined to prioritize their quiet time with The Lord. I can remember waking up for school each morning and they would be in The Word, no matter how busy the day ahead was. They modeled to me the importance of how to create a true relationship with The Lord, and what that looked like in handling day to day challenges.

I would love for you to join me in getting in The Word daily despite the busyness of life, and challenge ourselves in living out That Word when we experience offenses and challenges.

It’s so easy to get caught up isn’t it?

Today’s world, today’s problems, today’s…. everything. And don’t even mention how we dwell in the tomorrows that aren’t even here yet. We get caught up in the media, or social media, our jobs, finances, your kid’s senior year (yeah, it’s me – that’s me), the list goes on.

Oh, and our circumstances, our sufferings…. Oof! – not the “sufferings”?! Are we going to deal with all the crazies of that list? Yes. Are we going to suffer? Yes! (As my pastor Bro. Scott so graciously reminded me last Sunday 😬).

“But rejoice in as much as you participate in the sufferings of Christ, so that you may be overjoyed when his glory is revealed.” 1 Peter 4:13

But, in our humanness we get caught up and dwell in those sufferings don’t we? The circumstances, the small stuff even. And, then there’s the reminder from my husband (just this week lol) – in all his wisdom 😉, “Don’t sweat the small stuff”. LOL. Because, he knows me, and he knows I will so go there.

Guys, God tells us over and over- don’t sweat ANY OF IT! Don’t get caught up in anything but His presence! Psalm 27:4 King David “…… it is what I desire, to dwell in the house of the LORD all the days of my life…”

God wants us to choose today and all the tomorrows to DESIRE to dwell in His presence. To quit getting caught up in the mess, and the stuff that tries to drown you out.

Seek Him daily, making all things that obscure our view of God flee! The anxiety and fears that try to choke us out are the fears that were conquered on the cross! The battles, the sufferings- all conquered on the cross!

Y’all! …. Be caught up with Him! In His presence- at His feet – in His perfect holiness.

When we choose to go to that place with HIM – dwelling in His house – gazing at his beauty, seeking HIM, we won’t want to leave ❤️.

*fun fact – to “gaze” is to look STEADILY, INTENTLY, especially in ADMIRATION, or thought!

THERE – it’s THERE that I want my desire to be! So intently, in admiration, steadily, not taking my eyes off of Him. In all His glory, in His presence – dwelling … THERE! To never want to leave and to be so enveloped in my Savior that I can’t be caught up in anything else!

“I have asked one thing from the LORD; it is what I desire, to dwell in the house of the LORD all the days of my life, gazing on the beauty of the LORD and seeking Him in his temple.” Psalm 27:4

The crown

In the never-ending gap between Christmas Break and Spring Break. The days feel long, the calendars are jam-packed, and everyone feels like they’re going a little crazy. Am I right?

Some of us are on auto-pilot, barely present in our own lives. Many are overwhelmed, overstimulated, and just over it. Others are screaming on the inside, feeling a little insane.

King Nebuchadnezzar (let’s call him King Neb) had his own moment of insanity. After controlling his own kingdom for far too long, he had a wild dream that became his reality. In Daniel 4, the king “lost his sanity” as he tried to make sense of his life.

Daniel 4:34 says, “At the end of that time, I, Nebuchadnezzar, raised my eyes toward heaven, and my sanity was restored. Then I praised the Most High, I honored and glorified him who lives forever.”

King Neb tried to do things his way, following his plan, in his time. He wanted to do it all, be it all, and handle it all. He attempted to be his own king.

In his insanity, he saw that surrender was the only way to sanity. He realized that he had to remove his own crown of control, look to heaven, and humble himself before the true King.

I think we can see ourselves in King Neb.

We attempt to do it all by our own strength and might. We try to capture control and create our own kingdoms. We make our own plans and fix our own problems.

Then, we lose it…

We live on edge, overwhelmed by our own lives.

We lose sight of the promise of abundant life.

We let the small things build up and break down.

King Neb’s crazy dream led him to the cure for his own craziness.

The secret to sanity isn’t having everything under control. The secret to sanity is surrendering it to the One in control.

Like Neb, we have to remove crowns of control.

We are called to cast every care at His feet.

We are told to fix our eyes on things above.

It’s His Kingdom, we are just in it.

Hand over the crown to the One in control.

Unshakeable Promises

“For I consider that the sufferings of this present time are not worthy to be compared with the glory which shall be revealed in us”. -Romans 8:18 NKJV

When I was growing up in the ‘70s, family time typically revolved around certain television programs. For our family, it was often weekly game shows. While I was studying and meditating on Romans 8:18 one recent morning, I thought about the particular game show “Let’s Make a Deal”, hosted by Monty Hall. Part of the show included Monty picking a contestant from the audience (the audience would dress in some crazy outfits in hopes of gaining his attention) and offering some moderately valued prize. He would then barter with them and offer a trade for something else in a particular box. The person had to weigh the value of their current prize against the potential of what was in the box. Sometimes it paid off to trade and the hidden prize was revealed to be of greater value, like maybe an appliance. Sometimes the trade was of little value, like a can of dog food. These prizes were called “zonks.” The person’s decision was based on chance and much uncertainty. 

When we think about the meaning of “revealed” and our certainty in Christ, it serves as a reminder that, unlike game show contestants who take chances in hopes of something better, we as believers have the assurance and certainty of what will be revealed in Christ. “So we fix our eyes not on what is seen, but on what is unseen. For what is seen is temporary, but what is unseen is eternal.” 2 Corinthians 4:18 NIV

“No eye has seen, no ear has heard and no mind has imagined what God has prepared for those who love him.  But it was to us that God revealed these things by his Spirit. For his Spirit searches out everything and shows us God’s deep secrets.” 1 Corinthians 2:9-10 NLT

God’s promises are beyond our comprehension, yet they are revealed to us through His Word and His Spirit, providing us with hope and assurance. Our hope is not based on uncertainty or chance but on the unshakable promises of God. We can hold on to this certainty, knowing that our future glory in Christ far outweighs any of life’s uncertainties we may face. 

To paraphrase what Paul says, anything else is a “zonk”.

“Yes, everything else is worthless when compared with the infinite value of knowing Christ Jesus my Lord. For his sake I have discarded everything else, counting it all as garbage, so that I could gain Christ and become one with him.” Philippians 3:8-9 NLT

On the spot.

Deep down, we all want to be seen.

We want our efforts to be seen…

Our successes…

Not so much our failures.

God sees us.

He sees us in our weak moments.

He sees us in our “better” moments.

He sees us for who we truly are.

As Christians, we’re going to mess up. We’re going to sin. But when He died on the cross, Jesus took upon Himself the condemnation and judgment we should have faced.

Romans 8:1 tells us, “So now there is no condemnation for those who belong to Christ Jesus.”

An example of this is in John 8 when the religious leaders brought a woman caught in the act of adultery to Jesus. Obviously, a man was involved, but he was gone, and the religious leaders had set up a trap. They said, “This woman was caught in the act of adultery. The law of Moses says to stone her. What do you say?” (verses 4–5 NLT).

But Jesus knew exactly what they were doing. And instead of answering right away, He stooped down and wrote in the dirt. We don’t know what Jesus wrote, but whatever it was, it made had a big impact. Then He stood up and said, “All right, but let the one who has never sinned throw the first stone!” (verse 7 NLT).

The Bible tells us that one by one, they all left, from the oldest to the youngest. So, Jesus said to the woman, “Where are your accusers? Didn’t even one of them condemn you?”

She replied, “No, Lord.”

Then Jesus told her, “Neither do I. Go and sin no more” (verse 11 NLT).

This woman knew she was going to die that day. But instead, everything changed when she looked into the eyes of Jesus and looked at the others who had condemned her. And she believed on the spot. That’s how long it takes to believe in Jesus. It’s instant.

God always sees us for what we can become. Think of Simon Peter. When he was still known as Simon, Jesus gave him a new name, Peter, which means “rock.” Now, if there was anything that Simon was not, it was a rock. He was hotheaded, compulsive, and argumentative. Yet Jesus said, “From now on, you’re a rock.”

Maybe the other disciples were laughing at this, thinking, “Rock? Does Jesus know Simon?” but they didn’t know him like Jesus did.

Because yes, Jesus did know him. But Jesus wasn’t calling Simon what he was; He was explaining what he would become. Where we see failure, God sees potential.

We see a Simon. God sees a Peter. We see the past. God sees the future. We see a mess. God sees a message. God sees us for who we are in Christ, not what we were in sin. God does not see us in our sin; He sees us in His Son. God can change everything in your story—if you’ll only let Him.

God’s Plan

Reading through the Bible Recap has me stopping in my tracks.

Saul was literally seeking counsel from people that God had told Him to kill.

What?

Now don’t get all Judgy McJudgerson – points finger at self.

I guarantee you there’s something that God has told you (me) to do that you (me) just flat out didn’t do or that you (me) decided would be best to do the opposite. Cause you know our plan is better. 🤦🏼‍♀️

Sit and stew.

Sit. And. Stew.

What was it? What is it?

What is God telling you to do?

Don’t wind up in a pickle because you’re scared, lazy, or just downright defiant.

God’s plan is the plan.

Because God is God – and we are not.

And thank God for that.

10 The Lord told Samuel, 11 “Saul has stopped obeying me, and I’m sorry that I made him king.” 1 Samuel 15:10-11

Yes.

Picture this. The flowers are blooming. The spring rain is misting. The sun has seemed brighter. The birds are soaring. The days start to be longer. It’s just that time of the year, again. I am here for it!

Springtime is a time like no other. It’s the time when we can look all around us and see the beauty of God’s creation blooming everywhere you look.

Springtime also means that beautiful Easter Sunday morning is soon approaching. Have you ever stopped to think about how Jesus must have felt on that Good Friday, when He knew He would be dying for all of our sins? Can you imagine how surreal that “yes” must have felt for Him to answer? His “yes” was greater than any of the “yes” answers He asks of us. At the Lord’s Supper, it was clear that He didn’t want to say “yes”, but He responded with “your will be done”.

Have you ever had a point in your life that required a courageous and bold decision to say “yes”? Can you recall the tug of Jesus at your heart to say “yes” to that new job, new house, new career, maybe a deployment, a new church family, or maybe a new baby or life change Jesus is calling you to follow through on?

Galatians 1:4 tells us, “He who gave Himself for our sins to rescue us from this present evil age, according to the will of our God and Father.” By Jesus saying “yes” to giving Himself for our sins, He gave all of us the gift of eternal life waiting at the end of us saying “yes” to allowing Jesus into our heart and life and believing in Him.

Hebrews 11:6 tells us, “Now without faith it is impossible to please God, for the one who draws near to Him must believe that He exists and rewards those who seek Him.”

Our life is full of many choices that we must say “yes” to. While the most important “yes” you will ever choose will be accepting Jesus as our Lord and Savior, He has many more times He wants us to say “yes” to Him throughout our life here on Earth. He will reward you for seeking Him in all that you do.

This upcoming Easter season, remind yourself that Jesus answered the ultimate “yes” to dying for our sins, so we must answer “yes” to that tug on your heart to that thing that Jesus is calling you to do. Just do the thing He is asking you to do. By following His plan for you, a fulfilling, long life will follow. Just say “yes” to Jesus as He said “yes” to dying for your sins.

Talk

A few days ago I was sitting at Chick-fil-A, and we were praying over our food when a lady walks up and says “Hey! Can I ask you a question?”

We end up having a 30 minute discussion about religion. She was telling me about her beliefs, and I was telling her about my Jesus.

She ended up leaving the conversation because she couldn’t give me answers to my questions.

Looking back on it I would have never initiated that conversation. I am not the type to begin talking to someone about different beliefs or religions. But that conversation went well for the Christians in the room.

A spark was started in her life and in mine.

It’s when we go out of our comfort zone that we can see more of how God uses us in the day to day.

It’s when we answer “yes” to the simple questions. And it’s when we simply share about Jesus and His miracle life!

Talk about the Lord. Don’t be afraid to share what He’s done for you.