Why are we worried about what she’s doing? And her and her and her?
You want to put on a full face of makeup to vacuum and do dishes? Good! Do it.
That’s not your style? Good. Don’t do it.
You want to wear a dress every single day? Rock it!
You prefer jeans and t-shirts? Good! Nothing wrong with that either.
Stay at home mom.
But don’t talk about – don’t even care about – what the woman next door is doing. It shouldn’t matter.
Like my husband always says – don’t let minuscule thoughts live rent free in your head.
Cause why does it matter?
Keep your mind Kingdom-focused.
If we are going to worry about other women, let’s worry about their salvation. Let’s worry about their mental health. Let’s worry about if they need a helping hand or a listening ear. Let’s worry about loving everyone the way Jesus said to.
Let’s just be nice.
And just a little sidebar: When we as women do make that passive aggressive comment about another woman – our daughters see it. They feel it.
And they copy it.
Let’s be better.
“He must become greater; I must become less.”John 3:30